Where's the place to answer ..?

The place to answer lies in the questions asked purely, truly by our little ones.
Kindly solve their calling curiosities.
Take time out for them,
If not right then, be it later. Absolutely.
Write their questions in your days' planner.





- PRATIROOPA

The Ones .

It is very easy to call someone a mad person.
And if we are called the same....we feel irritated and then,  people say
"Hence proved! Look at your mad behaviour,  you're mad ..."

Never label anyone with the label you never would want to be called out as.

Shrishta aunty wasn't mad either, but a little old and agitated with the passing age and incapability of not being understood as before.
And so, she was labelled 'mad' , not only by the colony people but her own also.

Do
We really
Understand
Our ageing parents
???

Or
We are
Just too
Busy
Playing ourselves
And underestimating
The ones, who made us differentiate between
UNDERSTOOD  and  UNDERESTIMATED .




- PRATIROOPA

Missing in action

Missed one day
Of action and play
Wasn't much of the joy it was
Sitting in one corner
A corner most comfortably sweet of mine
But not enjoyed
Unless in action
And be posted.

So
I guess
Is the power of connection,
That,
Missing in action
Pops up
And
Redeems
Back to be placed. 

When is it hard to hate ?

It is hard to hate when we just don't want to hate .



And why hate ??

||
Hatred
Just
Burns us whole,
Getting
Started with
The
Brain .
||

Stand , INSTINCT !

Instincts are neither a sign of intelligence nor are they our regular intuitions.

Instincts
Are
Natural, response activity
We
Are
Born with.

It is inborn pattern of behaviour often responsive to specific stimuli.

Let always, our instinctive part be natural and un animated.
And teach the kids, the same.

( To follow the instinct to be the first to know
And review until Solved and Acceptable. )

Stand INSTINCT isn't rare to up built
But rarely visited to bridge
.....

We as Elders ??

If we, as elders, can not learn to better our
Behavior
Anger Management
Stress Handling
Linguist Control
....

But expect our kids to excel in all of these stated above,
Is merely a representation of
"public grades, scored well".

Addition

When our little ones are learning addition (in mathematics), for the first time, they have lots of questions to ask about. And to which,
We do get irritated also, sometimes.
Now during this whole session of teaching and getting taught, addition, if the child doesn't get proper answers to his / her queries ...
They won't be able to put up any questions, any further.

( as simple as we don't visit the shop again if we don't get our required stuff, at the moment
  of requirement )

Instead of addition, they learn to play one new thing from our irritated behaviour, the Irritation !

And PRATIROOPA believes...
There's no greater school than the school of Childhood !
And
There's no bigger teacher than Curiosity !

A celebrity !

Celebrate
Yourself
And
You are
A
Celebrity !


( A celebrity always loves to be him / her self ) .


Love
Yourself
So
You
Can
Radiate
It to
The
World !

How do we get a Perfect Bread ?

Earned
With
Honesty

Shared
With
Every
One

Enjoyed
With
Our
Own
Ones

Followed
With
A
Content
Feeling

Is how, we get a  PERFECT  BREAD .

Why ask Our Selves ?

Because
Asking
Our Selves
Will provide us
With an Answer

Which,
Asking others
Wouldn't .

What is the purest ?

A
Womb .

An
Old age
Smile .

A
Child's
First
Cry .

A
Father's
Holding hands
With
Child .

A
Child's
First
Day
At
School .

Are all the PUREST .

What is a flower ?

Our
Budding
Children

A
Budding
Relationship

A
New Seed

The First
In the
Womb

Are all the FLOWERS
Around us .

Who is forgetful ?

The one
Who never would
Want to be
Remembered for
His / Her
Greatness,
But for
His / Her
Contributing Atriums to the
World ...

Is forgetful ..
Of its own positive presence always remembered in all of us .

What is a warm hug ?

Warm Smiles
From
Wife / Husband .

A "Thumbs up"
From
Children .

An
Escaping wink
From
Grandpa / Grandma .

A
Pat
From the
Headmistress .

A
Wag
From our
Pet .

A
Shoulder rub
From the
Dear
Friend .

Are all the  WARM  HUGS :)

Your child is calling you !

Listening
To
Our
Child's
Whole
Day
At
School / College / office
Is
Our
Child's
Calling. 

What is duty ?

Sharing
Happy
Moments
With
Our
Oldies
At Home
Is
Duty .

What is beauty ?

Paying
Our
Duty
Honestly
Is
The
Only
Beauty .

|| Hopelessness isn't the only dark ||

I wrote earlier that
Hopelessness is the darkest ...

But actually,

●●●●
Hopeless behaviours !
Irresponsible contributions of your place in society !
Provocation of narcissism !
And betrayal of yourself to yourself till extinct !
●●●●

Is all "the darkest" .

Humanity is all of us ..

Humanity seeds in the hearts of all we human.
Unleashing the barriers of heartlessness, and procuring the truth of existence which very evidently is visible in

- each kindering, blossoming smile of our dear children. We pay our littlest gestures to them and they smile back to us for everything. They feel secure in us. Letting them feel this security .. is humanity.

- each helping hand .. is humanity.

- raising against insanity .. is humanity.

- protecting a flower .. is humanity.

- maintaining Planet Earth .. is humanity.

- reminding the wrong doer, of, his/her origin .. is humanity.

- thanking god .. is humanity.

- planting hope to a patient .. is humanity.

-  smiling with and not laughing at disabilities .. is humanity.

Its all around us.
Walks every day with us.
Lets knock for humanity, before its too late.

What is humanity ?

And
Where
Do
We
See
It
Around
? ?

The Maths worksheet

Coming out of my room, I went straight to my child's study room.
Took out his maths book and gave him some measurements' questions to solve.
Moments later he came to me telling that I had made a wrong question worksheet.
I asked him my mistakes, corrected them, now I was solving the work sheet and he was explaining to me.
Which helped him make better of his revisions.

( There's always room for betterment,
Only if we want to come out of OUR ROOMS. )

Give Ears not Years

Couple time is not sitting together, hand in hand, smiling compulsively, and all the other obligates.

Couple Time
Is the time when we, as couple, sit together to listen to each other.
Give to each other the same time to listen as much we take time in complaining.
When we are sharing "talks", try not to interrupt in between, jumping conclusion before listening the whole aspect.
Respect each other's view.
And then say your part, when asked for.

And lead a healthy conversation by giving ears and not years
...

What is independence ?

Realising
To
Rely
Upon
Pride
Than
Proud
Is
Independence ..

Respecting
The
Perspective
With
Dignity
Is
Independence ..

Keeping
Along
Family
With
Success
Is
Independence ..

Living and Loving
Peace and Harmony
Is
Independence ..

what is happiness ?

Sharing
And
Caring
The Joy of
Learning
Is
Happiness .

:)  :)

Only one fear

Just that one small fear seeded into the naive thinking of our children once
.....
Goes with them for the whole life long. 

Nutritious PRATIROOPA

Boil 3 potatoes. And boil 2 bowls of finely chopped spinach separately.
When they are boiled properly, peel off the potatoes.
Now mash both the boiled spinach and potatoes together. And keep aside.
Soak 5 bread slices in milk, one by one for not more than 3 seconds. Take them out of soaked milk now.
Mash these soaked slices into our spinach and potatoes' mixture.
Add salt, as per the taste, some chilli flakes, and Black pepper powder and mix well with the spinach,  potatoes and bread mix we just made.
Start making small balls of this mix now.
After making the balls,  press them inside your palms with both the hands.
Sprinkle some refined flour on all of these pressed balls. Now turn them upside down, and now sprinkle the flour on this side also.
Heat oil in a frying pan, sufficient enough to fry our potato, spinach pressed balls.
Once the oil seems heated, drop the balls,  one by one and fry till golden brown.
Take them out and serve with tomato ketchup along with mustard sauce.
Dress up with some spring onions on the top of our golden balls.

The tastiest, crisp balls are ready to be galloped.
;)

What is the darkest ?

Hopelessness
Is
The
Darkest .

Let the kids be .

Labelling our kids with our personal suitability of reaction at that moment not only lowers the kids' confidence in us,
But also it deteriorates the further chances of us being connected to their daily conversations.
I have also seen people saying that if they give teasy names to their kids at home, the kids will be more stronger to bear the tease in the world outside of home.
Which is absurdity. In actual factual terms of PRATIROOPA.

Matter of fact is that, by doing such behaviours with the kids, we are ourselves creating teasers of next order having crossed one level already at home.

Let's nurture them clean, so they spread the same around. 

PRATIROOPA Reminding all

So,
Did we say Thank You to all the beautiful people today for contributing to our lives in some way or the other.

I want to thank all of all.

Thank you
:)

Adverse / Adverse not

There are always two ways of taking things at hand.
Either we just busy ourselves in being sad to receive what comes ahead
Or
We just busy ourselves with positive heading to whatever comes.

Situations and stances are always just themselves and are rigidly unchangeable.
But its we, who can change the perception towards upcoming situations and stances.
And lead ahead.

PRATIROOPA initiates Genuinity

Dressed well, hair bluntly done (but perfect), make up minimalised, Meena caught her bus and took her seat.
Looking out of her window she was just stressing upon the answers to be given by her for the post of head mistress, she had applied for.
She reached the School and was called for the questioning by Principle and the team.

She gave appropriately, intelligently, interesting answers which actually was required for the post of headmistress to hold upon as mid link freshly representing students' and Principle's relationship.
While stepping outside of the room, she was stopped by the Principle who told her that her toothbrush was peeping out of her bag, must she put in place back now.
Meena felt embarrassed at this.
To which the Principle said,
"Why feel embarrassed girl?
I liked your genuinity and dedicated preparations for the next project uprising."

(Meena kept the toothbrush and other belongings in her bag because she had to go to her sister's place to babysit for two days, after her interview. )

We are best spontaneous

Nylie was asked in her interview to tell about her future plans.
To which she replied,
"I live for the day Sir.
What if I go out of this cabin and meet a heart stroke or any other unpleasant happening. ..?
What would then be remaining to be my future plans?
But for sure I pray to God, to keep me mentally stable. Because my brain is the only one power which would always let me pursue any of my days' plans. Even if I am bodily paralysed and not able to move.
And for that mental stability, I try best of myself to stay grounded and respect each around me."

Speak Sense

After preparing dinner, Mother always used to call the whole family for eating at the same time to just to ensure the old system of dining together.
Whole family was called, and be seated.
Everyone was discussing his/her day.
Mother asked the eldest son,
"And, how was your day Jossie ?"
Jossie replied,
"Well it doesn't consider you Mother, at least. What else you know than cooking food whole day ..."
To which mother replied,
"Of course the food that makes you speak sense whole day when you are out and be presentable with the clean and ironed clothes you wear. Right dear son !"
Whole family looked at mother and ate silently then.

Never Compare

Your system is lying in front of you where you can access all your data in accordance with you.
Your table is put at its place.
Your bag is where you assigned it to be.
Your spoon is where you lastly had put it. . .
And so more you can look around and state.

Same ways we all are at the place we are assigned best for us to be at.
What possibly best can happen with us,
Is happening at the moment.
Must we stay assured and make peace.

And similarly, what best is required to be happening in our kids' life or our teens' life or our partners' life or our elders' life, ,
Is happening at the moment.

BUT OUR IRRATIONAL COMAPRISONS ALWAYS SCREW THE DRIVER WITHIN US.
Never
Compare !
And stay content ♡♡

Painting with you and I

Let me paint my town with all the colours of time.
Times of you and I
Splashed all over the next.

With the beautiful fragrance of sun's orange
Clappingly bounded with smiles and laughters
Where we all sit on the beds of meadows
Without the woods of hate.

Let
Love
Harmony
And
Peace
Happen
Today
And Tomorrow
And Forever

So our young ones can easily play the circle of life
:)

Positive Aura ...

Whenever
Sending
Your
Child for
Examination at
School or college or anywhere

Always Remember to,

Boost him/her up with positive words. Positive words create an aura of experimental spree onto their mindset.

And they are now ready to take the challenge with optimism.

Our positive words are like water and seeds just sprinkled over the barren, sufficiently.

(While negative words will impact the exact opposite.)

All
The
Best
Dear
Candidate !

See, believe, write

Great stories aren't cropped and steamed and written.
BUT
Great stories are seen and believed and written. 

The classwork at home

Joshua and Claire always watched their parents doing their work with sincere passion towards making a good family. They were learning this on day to day basis of way of life. They always used to find their parents in action without wasting any time.

Once the kids were given a worksheet to complete in the classwork. It had a question,
"Describe the most preciously favourite thing you have in life."
Some wrote about their toys, games, clothes, food items and some wrote about the fancy.
While Joshua and Claire had same answers written on their worksheets, saying
"My most preciously favourite thing is my family."

And the teacher called their parents to school to have a look at their work.
They were overwhelmed and thanked their kids.
:)

PRATIROOPA teaches Thanksgiving

Thanking Mother Nature for creating this beautiful world and enabling us to make it possible to understand the propose of our existence. By showing the beautiful colors all around, teaching us Harmony.
With the rising rays of Sun, teaching us enlightened balance.
And the stable motion of Earth, teaching us togetherness encore.

With all my heart
Thank You Mother Nature. 

Dear Mother Goddess

OM
AIM
HRIM
KLIM
CHAMUNDAYEI
VICHEY

This is a pious mantra of Maa.
Reciting this Navaran mantra can ease all odds of life.
A mantra to solutions, to empower and exuberate the self belief to solve any problems of life.
Reciting this mantra increases the concentration to, what we should do now, when we are brought into this world. To make it happy or sad by our own presence. And purpose of our lives should be to illuminate each other's heart and mind with joy, respect and wisdom.  All of all which we think of doing in actions, is never the thought of us. But actually the thoughts of acting the wisdom and joy all around, are always seeded and guided by our Maa Durga. Unless and until she sends us a signal to act righteously, we can't move our fingers even. With all the pure calling, when we chant this mantra, we directly get connected to wisdom and joy in our actions.

OM - is the sound of origin which still follows
AIM - creation of perfection by the seed of wisdom (Maha Saraswati)
HRIM - purification perceived by senses, conceived in mind (Maha Lakshmi)
KLIM - union of gross body of intuition and meditation into casual body (Maha Kali)
CHAMUNDAYEI - name of Maa Durga to destroy evils
VICHEY - to put extraction to sections of delusions
....

We do best when we don't Know

When our kids do not know what to do and how to put to end results,
Is actually, the best they are doing.
Without caring for the compared performance.
Being their actual, original self.
Excelling into the actions of true spirits,
Un-animated,
Power fully.

Board rover

When we already occupy ourselves
To move to next room best lay
To reach to
And make our next job accomplished
Now and Then
.....
We do not have any rooms left
For worry.


MAKE  MOVE
TURN  DECIDED
SMILE  RESTED
BOARD  ROVER

PRATIROOPA decode

Songs of you and me
Songs of old and new
Songs of merry and sad
Songs of days and nights
Always do have a rhythm

....

Rythm of happening
All the happening of moments decode
To lead us to new beginnings
Awaiting to remain
As simply and just immediately as we take them
To suit to our air for that moment

....

And always teaching a new teaching

Do we
But shoulder

....

memoirs unclose preciously

An old coffee was always preferred than the new day's fancy.

Old never means we are dragged back and moving with back gear.

But actually, connecting ourselves with the ROOTS.

The  ROOTS  of being. 

Do we remember ?

While
screaming at our children,
pushing them aside,
scolding them, or
slapping them ...
when was the last time did we remember, what we used to feel for the same, when we were kids ??

Yes, why not !

Even in our own house in which we live, we breathe,  we eat, we sleep, we cry, we laugh, we guest, and we preach everyday, we do find some or the other corner in the house to improve.
To improve sitting arrangements,  to improve the lighting, to improve the decor. ..and much more.  And we do. To the best even.


Can't we try to keep the doors of improvement open inside of us ??
Why do the doors are always opening outside, pointing at others around ??

( YES, why not do the needful ! )

practising PRATIROOPA...

Blog PRATIROOPA has been started to keep in mind the very basic of natural aspects to living.
The very basic aspect of "Self " "Improvement".

(So that we all can actually talk and not sulk with each other)
(So that we all can nurture our little kids without compare)
(So that we can truly initiate the respect for all)
And
Most importantly,
Speak OUR  SELVES.

TO DAY

: To this beautiful day :


Dear Day,

U brought us a beautiful morning with many aspirations to hold upon and live. With the sun shining bright and orangely early, all the smiles around seem so pleasurable.

The pavement is clearly gazing at the on goers.

Let us house ourselves with the thoughts of determination, on to the roads to reach.

And shower beneath the airy blessings of the most important thing , to keep walking,
Walking till we are tired ...
... and rest one day in peace .

Oh dear day, thank you for visiting. 

Actually ♡●♡●♡●♡

FLOWERS
ARE
SILENT
Because
SILENCE
IS
BEAUTIFUL
Than
UN NECESSARY
BLAH .. BLAH

and why do we have to do that ??

All the talks
During which we really have to formalise our thoughts beforehand
Or otherwise, we will not be able to have a conduction with the conversant
.......

Actually are the talks of loads ,
    Loads of responsibility,
    Loads of die-ability (of present expression)

........

WHICH
DOES SUFFOCATE .

( an ageing mother used to cry on almost every issues of daily, now and then.
 her whole family was around her.
but she used to feel all alone.
WAS
SHE
SUFFOCATED ..)
?
?
?

EXPRESSIONS are IMPRESSIONS

Expression is never well conveyed
Unless it is felt.

And a felt expression only, leaves an impression on our minds.

And so,
We all remain Human to feel expressions to feed to the heart and record in mind as impressions to last  . . . . .

Lets accept before we expect !

Out of frustrations in the marriage, Rego usually used to slap her students in the classroom. She was practising teaching with the kids of grade 3 merely.
Almost of the times,  kids had no idea for getting slapped by her.
Then how could Rego expect the kids to learn from their mistakes,  unless they know of their mistakes....

Do we usually do it ??

Kids are absolute fast learners of behaviour in the nurturing environment.

(Lets nurture them clean
So , they spread the same around.)

it must be somebody's birthday today :D

MANY
          MANY
HAPPY  RETURNS  OF  TODAY  DEAR  READER  :)

♡♡
May God bless you with good health and many congratulations to the fortunate family
♡♡

My Neighbours to talk to

Green - replenishment

Blue - hope

Orange - settled brightness

Yellow - smiles   :)  :)

And while

White and  Black do the submerging base for all the colours .


(They do the loudest talking in our days' psyche

Need we listen )

Review-> Connect-> Share

Each single dot on the circumference makes the circle whole.

All the small rocks intacted make the mountain whole.

The Whole .

Grass in green and lush

Flowers in red and yellow and pink with purple and maroon and orange

Flowing with the breathing sky
Sheltered,
Spreeing,
And together .


(What we can do staying together
We cannot do staying alone) .

Value the best of all age relationships we are bouqueted with
and abilitise to make sure that we all receive the message of existence .

PRATIROOPA is proud to be associated with you all :)

Respected All,

If you have any queries regarding the following,
PRATIROOPA will be delighted to answer all.
Please feel free to drop in at :
pratiroopah@gmail.com
Or
Simply you can leave a comment at the end of the related post on the blog.

- tips regarding child behaviour management

- tips regarding improvising teenage HIGH WAYS

- tips regarding homework management

- tips for the latest colour collection for every occasion
   (including make ups and dress coding as per the event)

- tips regarding lifestyle refinement

- tips regarding body language ..

And many more to come day to day.
Because PRATIROOPA believes that every new day comes with new learnings.

(*comments aren't the judgemental array always,  but a scope towards the better us.)

Sincerely,
PRATIROOPA
  :)

count your behavioural pattern

Siliiu was always an insecure self. She was every time looking for a chance to demoralise the person sitting around.
Sometimes cribbing the clothes, sometimes cribbing the behaviour, the live up, the neighbours, the guard,  the maid, ...... her own sisters and brothers,
She was always misquoting others out of the insecurity.
Times passed by and so did the years.
She was now a dissatisfied soul wandering alone in the world of her own. Her own family members including husband and children were no more interested in her insecure behaviors.

Let us all ask today to ourselves about our insecurities and step ahead to remove them,  right away.

Because
When we make our own people, the moulds of behaviour in accordance with us
- behaviour of talking
- behaviour of laughing
- behaviour of crying .....
It just makes them a mould,  then.
Don't expect their hearts out any more.
We already paralysed their hearts with disappointment .

I am thankful

THANKING all the viewers for sparing their precious time and having a look at my inputs.

All the Mommyyyyyysss
All the Daddddssss
All the Grannnnyyyyyssss
All the Grandpaaasss
All the beautiful children and
All the handsome teens
All the beauty lovers
And all the Learners
:)   :)   :)   :)   :)

Thank You.

lets get some ART for all the lovely you

Art is not what we see

Art is not what we appreciate as works of expression

Art is not to label music, sculpting,  literature, dance, paints

Nor is it an act of run through roads

But Art is a way of life. A breath to believe. A door to existence. A plant to seed.
When we love ourselves
We love Art
:)

PRATIROOPA teaches everyday

Never put your child into boxed way of thinking and leading life.
Read his/her persona
Allow it to grow,
And then watch your shining star.

Or else we end up summarising their personalities under misquoted tags.



Do we buy a shirt with the tag of stocking or a trousers with the tag of brush  ??

PLEASE LEARN AND ACCEPT

Our little kids are the most fortunate treasure we have of all the times.
They watch us since their day one.
And we think every time that they are learning from us and we become epitome of our own, created by our own self.

IS  IT  REALLY ??

Sorry, but not actually. They watch us to remind us that somebody is still watching. Watching and paying careful attention to each and every action of ours.
And which automatically explains to us to behave better in an acceptable manner. Onto which we think
"My child, watching me, is learning from me."
In fact the child watching us, is teaching us to be better.
Much much better than before.
Which is why we usually find people saying,
"We have changed a lot after becoming parents."

SO HERE,  WHO  LEARNS  FROM  WHOM  ??
 - we learn from our kids :)

( a very simple, yet truly sincere acceptance of me as a proud mother having learnt so...much from my child. )

Because I NEVER tried to make an onion out of a tomato and vice versa.

The Lucky Us

What we learn today
Adds as layer onto layer of experiences to care for and share

Which goes with us
Whole life long

And accepting the fact of matter always smoothens the learning
Making it joyful bliss to be kept ,
In the arms of time .. with the lullabies of nursing nature
Who we rely upon daily
But thank rarely

All the Grounds on our shoulders
With sighs of chirp around
Remake the fabulous everyday

(And that's all goes with us of what we learn today  ..)

(SOME) (TIMES)

Sometimes you just want to stay inside your room ,  and not meet anyone , and not talk to yourself either.
That's when you realise that its not
That you only live with you but with all the ones,
Who are with you
All the times, actually every now and then

Looking for you ...
Looking upto you ...

Because life is like that

L-live
I-it
F-for
E-else

I admitted to learn today
:)

sorry for late, .. dear all

Very sorry to have joined in late today.

PRATIROOPA is fun learning

Try
Spending
'Waste
Of
Time'
Whole  One  Day.

For  A  Change.

And
After
Having
Frustrated
Of
Wasting  The  Whole  Day

You will find yourself better motivated in full swings when you wake up the next morning
:)

She could, Because She Knew What she wanted

During her board exams (the CBSE boards, now changed to CCE Pattern) Naushii used to stick to a very particular schedule to divide her study hours in accordance with the practice and syllabus.
Though not a very good performer, she used to score grades enough to excise her psyche
"Yeyyyy ! I am promoted to next level. " happily every year.
But she sure was a sharp shooter (full of general knowledge as she strongly believed of common sense which isn't very common, fundamentals).

She was, as always setting alarm to wake up in the middle of night and do that cokoo study for preparations. And , fondly setting the books table,  she slept.
Alarm rang at 2:45 am, as settled. She woke up, turned off the alarm and slept again to wake up again soon after a short nap.
Mother peeped from outside the door and whispered,
"Naushii, wake up now, don't you think of your preparations you weak link..."
Sadly, Naushii woke up and started with books. Yawning every time she read a large explanation. .....
The day came of her Economics exam, she was very annoyed with the family trend of calling her a weak link. And head held high, she prepared in her usual manner this time also  but with a SELF MOTIVATED concentration.
She came back from her exam centre, merrily, again with head held high.
Results were declared out and Naushii appeared with distinction marks in all her favourite subjects,  English, Business Studies, Economics. Which was again well enough for her to join Office Management training from a reputed training centre. Besides her bachelors from  correspondence.
Naushii works today with Meridians and is one of the promising employees, because she works her heart out, every time in everything .

NEVER PUSH KIDS TO THE GENRE OF RAT RACE .
PLEASE PARENTS, LET THEM SEARCH FOR THEMSELVES AND GET BACK TO YOU

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> REACH

When we can

But we don't

Or
Won't

Or
Never

Brush our potentials to get the best of all of our own range,        

Is ........
ESCAPISM !

what is escapism

What
Is
Escapism
?

humanity strings with sunrises and sunsets

In the arms of Lord

Me homed safe and profound

The homes are sky and trees

And the grounds beneath

Chirping birds,  singing the joy of existence

And the stars,  shining the aisle

Oh Lord !

How I want to dance your creations

And be the beggar of times .

the lovely guests :)

That one beautiful evening,
That one beautiful night,
That one beautiful day,

When all the beautiful people in our lives
Come to see .....
And sit with us
Amidst the thoughts of renunciation
Declared aloud in their own course of action ,

Usually but would try to be nice to notify
That the receiver of their conversation
Isn't much of the best price in context with
What they publicise themselves as .


(Are actually the herd of panoramas)

I, Me , We, You, They ....

We are responsible for our actions .

We are creators and

We are destroyers .

Act well your part

Therein all the honour lies .

A SIMPLE QUERY

Is this blog reading concluding us anywhere in our
Minds?
Or
Hearts?


Please don't hesitate to comment.
Because 1+1+1+1+1+1+1+1........makes the whole.

PRATIROOPA teaches to be self reliant .

HEAD
HELD
HIGH ,
WALK
YOU
MUST
ALONE ......
ONLY
WITH
YOUR
SELF
.

SAVE EARTH

( Adelina - 13 years old
Carol - 5 years old
Mom, Dad .
Trees, Sky, garden Squirrels, Room's air, table, couch and curtains along with walls and roof. )

Sitting on her couch, Adelina was crying bitterly after coming back from school. And didn't stop even when Carol asked her several times to stop crying and be a good girl.
When asked the reason,  Adelina told Carol that she broke with her boyfriend in the school that day. And what worsened the situation was that she wanted to ditch the boy, rather than being labelled ditched by her boyfriend. Sob,,,,, Sob,,,,,,
"Oh, I am all alone now :(  so lonely on this only planet " cried Adelina.

To which little Carol replied immediately,
"Oh, my lovely innocent sister, don't forget that you have me and mom and dad and all the garden squirrels out there and this couch you are sitting upon and these walls and the roof and the trees and the big sky and the room's air still with you. Must you realise that.
And be happy."

Adelina could not find a better consoler and laughed out loud.

WE ARE  NEVER  ALONE !

( Please save earth from getting heavier with the presence of pessimism )

use the brain swing before it wrougts

SWINGS  OUT  THERE
ARE  SITTING IDLE
UNTILL  THE  BLOSSOMING  KIDS
PLAY  THEM  IN  THEIR
PUREMOST  WAY

:)

Life is a Rainbow

TRY
EVERY
COLOUR
YOU
SEE
BEST
APPLICABLE
AROUND

because trying is half the way reached .

a lovely spring onion chutney (spicy condiment)

Just wanted to share this lovely chutney with all (valentines special)

Take around 250g of spring onions. Wash them well. Chop into pieces. Take your grinder. Put all the cut onions into your grinder along with 2 green chillies, 1 tomato and 1 lemon's juice. Now add 2 serving spoons of water in this, which will ease your ingredients to run inside the grinder smoothly. Also now, add salt as per your taste.
Start grinding till it becomes fine paste.

Your beautiful green, onion chutney is ready to serve :)

Tastes amazing with your breads and all Indian pakoras, and parathas .

Yummmmmm
ENJOY !

* (That's how we learn and share at PRATIROOPA) *

long before the game is over

People who think that life is a performance and they are proudly going to be pronounced the best stage show. .....actually need to revisit the cycle of thoughts.

We all love to perform in fact, don't we....
But  THE  STAGE  is not the one we perform upon standing and obeying the rules of tic-tac-toes,
Rather,  I believe, a stage is provided in the audience who watch us perform, tolerate us, allowing us to be...
                                         AND
All the ones (our support system) including :
Our mother, father,  grandpa, grandma, sisters,  brothers,
Husband, in laws, our children,
Our maid, our shopkeeper,  our tailor, vegetable seller. .........
Each one who is connected to our life. Is the stage in our life where we perform our roles, consecutively,  and which they allow us subsequently
Daily,  weekly,  monthly,  yearly.

Keep intact with these stages in your life, long before the day comes we lose any of them and the game is over .

because PRATIROOPA seeds from and on to love yourself

LOVE
YOURSELVES
SO
YOU
CAN
RADIATE
IT
TO
THE
WORLD

And It Happenzz ;)

       Heyyyyyyaaaaaaa


WAKE  UP TO  NOW !
forget yesterdays
DON'T  PONDER  OVER  TOMORROW ....
when your feet hit the ground

           ||||||||||||||||||||||||||

YOU  HAVE  JUST  PREPARED  YOURSELF
for a new way to a new day .

And  It  Happenzz
:)

FAMILY TIME ♡ :) ♡

Dear all

On this valentines day,  go to your oldies and give them a warm hug of thankfulness for someway or the other, they really did help you in guiding whom to choose to be your perfect valentine  :)

So this makes a special family time to thank our elders to help us make our own family time.
( Because they always knew about all our upcoming demands, much earlier we got a ping about our demands,, and manged to comply ) happily ...

learners' eyes @___@

A bird teaches how to niche
An ant teaches to keep going on  

Sun teaches to be on time
Moon teaches to be silently delighting

A tree's bark smells out the roots
Water teaches the force of energy

Flowers teach the greeting smiles

{ Teachers are all around us,
Just keep the learners' eye on }

@__@

again today :) RE SORT

A little boy of four,  was playing with his toys and scattered them all around him.
He looked here and there over the mess he just created around.
Sitting on his rug, he felt tired of the scenario, and fell asleep.
After a short nap, he woke up
Reached to his basket of toys,  he just emptied.
He started putting all the toys back into the basket,  one by one .....

In no time, the whole area around him, was clean and clear.

He smiled at his achievement, and moved on to his next project .

* Idea of having shared this :

- always try to do things out of the box  (initiate your kids for the same as well)
- so you can see all you can pull out of yourself and
- manage to have the courage to RE SORT all that you have placed out of your box

And,
Just take one step at a time :)

unless you catch the flow..you can not flow ~~~~

Reading all through the posts,  did even the idea of blog PRATIROOPA get conveyed  ?

Prati - each one (each self)
Roopa - form ( format,  image)

PRATIROOPA means, each one's self format / image / form of being,  etc...

Here, blog PRATIROOPA, holds to put an array of actual,  factual concept binding of
- behavioural pattern (relating to self)
- port of carriability (relating to self)
- realising the manner to put RESPECT to each on this planet
- Worthing trust (to self and others,  both)

And all the many more humane behaviours are provided to be improving during hands and minds on PRATIROOPA .

maximum deficiency is your ultimum strength

[[[
when we talk to a negative thinker.... it does provide us with stink of situation , while giving a chance to be a better patient .
]]]

pratiroopa belongs to you :)

Pratiroopa, belongs to you.
I mean, actually,  all of you.
To a mother, a daughter, a son, a wife, a teacher, a husband, a father, the old granny and grandpa, all the nurturing little hands on this planet and to all of all who really want to see positive changes in the ongoing procedural society.

And as pratiroopa is focusing on the betterment of humane behaviour, developing and creating mindsets of positively potentiated mental stamina,
We daily have to prepare ourselves to be the better us. So we nurture and spread the same around .

most of us think that right thinking, but actually the individual perception

So many times, so many of us have thought that our kids are amazing and perfect because we are their parents.

Oooooh please let me correct this very right thinking ,, but at the same time,, a very individualistically , judgemental approach  !

Dear people,
If we all take a leap towards learning from our kids rather than always trying to teach them to be like us, for their better being..... we all will see a big decisive change in the personality of our dear children.
Lets never suffocate them with the labels of their originally oriented behavioural pattern and lead them to confusions  WHO  AM  I ...

One learning from kids is as powerfully equal to one finest investment of your trust in them which motivates their own trust in them
:)

prosperous Basant Panchami

Wishing all of you all
A  VERY  HAPPY  AND  PROSPEROUS  BASANT  PANCHAMI .
:)
 A festival to start the highlight of arriving spring season.
Also, the basant panchami day is dedicated to the worship of goddess Saraswati,  goddess of knowledge,  music,  art, science and technology.
And basant means spring, a festival of Yellow Colour .

Hands on Pratiroopa

Pratiroopa came into being, some six years back and time to time, taking its shape and sharpening genre...today, its on your screens.


EXPLAINING   PRATIROOPA (in the best possible, simplest manner)


PRATIROOPA, as the word suggests, is the hindi word for self image which we see of ourselves in the mirror on day to day basis.
Most of us are boastfully satisfied with the 'I am perfect' image, while rest of us are keen towards 'Lets learn more to be better us' image.
 Its absolutely, purr...fectly fine with who we want to feel to be while making move away from our mirrors. Depending upon person to person.

(Though, personally, actually, I am more having a bend onto 'Lets learn more...' image of what I see myself as, in the mirror.)

PRATIROOPA,
but never has an intention to make an onion a tomato or vice versa. Because , each one of us is being sent in this world to hold the place, we very much deserve.

a new posted day

variety  of  upcoming  ideas  to  put  into  a  genre of  multiple  plated  reconciliation of  mind jostle  to  put  to  the  world  of  actual  readers,  founders  and  believers .