and why do we have to do that ??

All the talks
During which we really have to formalise our thoughts beforehand
Or otherwise, we will not be able to have a conduction with the conversant
.......

Actually are the talks of loads ,
    Loads of responsibility,
    Loads of die-ability (of present expression)

........

WHICH
DOES SUFFOCATE .

( an ageing mother used to cry on almost every issues of daily, now and then.
 her whole family was around her.
but she used to feel all alone.
WAS
SHE
SUFFOCATED ..)
?
?
?